Catch Author Kainaz Jussawalla and chart topper author Arvind Parashar in an exclusive chat on the occasion of his new book release online which also reveals an interesting cover.
Arvind’s first book Kabira was a top seller in November 2015.Since then, his fans have only been growing in width.
Intrigued by the title of his new novel, book one in the series of ‘Messed Up’ But All for Love trilogy…I catch the Dashing Author on a video call, at his pad in Bengaluru, on a relaxed Sunday, over a cup of Darjeeling Tea and latte..
Hey Arvind, what’s the story? The title sounds quite up my street, if you know what I mean?It is a Romance thriller Kai, this is one space that lacks Indian writing and I hope with this novel and more I can provide that to our readers.
Sounds good! Any fun moments writing it ?
Plenty. There was a time, while writing the climax, I had writer’s block. It took me two vacations and six weeks to write those six seven pages. See, this is the kind of fun authors have. Another was, when I had lost my notepad that had a couple of chapters in it. Things like that. In terms of the publishers, it is Srishti publishers, who need no introduction. I am so excited to have bagged this trilogy deal with them.
And well …Who or What has inspired you to write it ? (wink)
First of all, it is mostly a stretch of my imagination. Yes, there are certain funny instances in the novel that have been inspired from real life, however the plot and the overall story is pure fiction. A nice cup of black coffee, beautiful landscape and lovely people in my life- good enough a combination to inspire me to think and write.
I have been noticing your terrific fan following across social media?
Fortunately, I have a pretty engaged set of fans / readers on my pages. I love interacting with them. They always inspire me to write. They love my quotes, pictures, live chats and my books. In fact, they have been waiting eagerly for Messed Up! Book.
Where do you think the future of writing lies in the Indian industry?
It is a great space to be in. Indian writing is now more prominent than ever before. We have new readers who are entering that bracket as we now see, reading and writing is being encouraged in the schools and colleges. So far as the writers go, if you write well, engage well with the readers, you will stay for long.
Where is your first launch for Messed up … when do we expect the release? Am I invited?
We shall do in Bangalore, Mumbai , Kolkata and Delhi. The book is out for pre orders already and has been trending in top 50-100 on amazon bestsellers. It will hit the shelves in the month of May.
Of course you better be there …..That goes without saying!
That’s Fantastic… We… will all be there…. Arvind!!!
Parsis ..we are unique and we are loveable !!!!
I won’t say more !
But I must confess that I love being called crazy
It is my U S P!
Here are some of the things which according to me every Parsi does or has, at least once in their life time.
Please feel free to add more …
- Every Parsi must have at least walked out of their home once without their Sudra kusti.Naughty !
- OK Every Parsi must have burped at least once, loudly in public.
- Every Parsi must have dreamt of a delicious food spread once at least, after just finishing a huge meal.
4. Every Parsi must have at least said once in their life : “I will never be a vegetarian ”
5. Every Parsi must have forgotten their topi or scarf at least once before entering Agyari and had to borrow or pick from old ones stocked on the premises.
6. Every Parsi has a childhood doctor/homeopath, usually some Walla.. who they still want to visit and claim their childhood candies from.
7.Every Parsi loves his Mumma equally, if not more, than his spouse, even on his 25th wedding anniversary!
8. Every Parsi must have sworn at least once in their mother tongue, even if they never use a swear word otherwise. (MC BC Ghadero)
9. Every Parsi would have had one favorite grand parent whom they have thought the world off, living or dead.
10. Every Parsi will have at least one weakness.. if not whisky peg then chicken leg. If not 50 cups of tea a day, then cards to play.
11. Every Parsi may have attended a Lagan(wedding) only to relish the Patra,(meal on a leaf) often forgetting the names of the bride and the groom.
12. Every Parsi must have clapped, danced and rotated on the Birdy dance Song at least once in their lifetime.
13. Every Parsi is related to another with a maximum of four degrees separation.(fact unverified though)
14. Every Parsi has the half conviction or at least a passing thought, that they descend from some kind of royal lineage/ kin.
15. Every Parsi has been called Crazy bawa or bawi at least once, if not more, by their buddies from other communities.
16. Every Parsi at least once must have got their cheeks pulled or called apple/ mango/ dudh pao in school , functions or among relatives.
17. Almost every Parsi can have ‘something per eeda’ (eggs) easily as a meal substitute.
18. Every Parsi Has woken up in the middle of the night in cold sweat thinking about the stains /spots on their cars, sofas, side boards, kitchen tops.
19. Every Parsi, must have skipped the fire temple, at least once in life on a Navroz or New year, only cause they were a tad lazy to.
20. Every Parsi has one friend at least, who makes friends with him only for a dhanshak invite at his place.
21. Every Parsi has at least one of these if not more …in their home : an antique car/ bike / watch/ furniture set / tea set/ book/ gramophone / radio / telephone / countless plastic bags.
22. Every Parsi has laughed uncontrollably and hysterically even if the joke is not funny or on themselves… !
Hope you enjoyed the above points … just written for Bawa entertainment !
There are so many more… please feel free to add yours….
The stern face of my manicurist appeared out of nowhere, “Yellow cuticles madam you will get; only OPI products you must use.” He wins. Plan cancelled.
Snappy Music in the background did I hear? Oh we have progressed!
In house Bollywood entertainment?
Brief second of glee was cut short; it turned out to be an audio advert for Badshaah masala pav bhaji ka masala, etc etc.
Poets they say are highly intelligent people who have a depth beyond common understanding.
Have you ever felt bummed out about missing that bus?
That you should have just grabbed that opportunity when it was right in front of your face?
That you woke up a bit too late in the day, only to realize everyone else seem to have moved miles ahead?
If only you had made the right decisions at the right time or taken the traditional path of meeting timelines, of what the world perceived them to be?
Hold your breath, for there is only good news for you!
I am a great believer of the phrase,
‘Life can only be understood backwards but it must be lived
Therefore by that rule of thumb, more the delay- more the wisdom and knowledge and smoother the path ahead…..
Here are ten reasons why it’s not only all right to kick start your life late in the day; but how it may actually work out in your favour:
- Lots of people have started late.
Relax you are not alone in this delayed boat. In fact you have several geniuses for company.
-Van Gogh didn’t start painting till he was in his late twenties.
-Dave McClure of Angel Investor, until forty, did no investing.
-Culinary Wiz Anthony Bourdain was not thriving till he was 44.
-Winston Churchill failed school three times.
-Most Presidents and Prime ministers only become such when they are at the second half of their lives.
And hey, Prince Charles is still waiting to be King!
- It gives you time to really know what you want.
Stats show that 36 percent of divorces that take place are between couples who tied the knot between the age of 20 and 28 years of age.
After all, it is a bit tricky to decide on who’s a better match when one has narrowed the options in a smaller time frame?
Stats also show 30 percent of people switch careers between the ages of 34 to 36.
What starts off as the obvious road to financial stability or first job availability in their twenties, may not be anything close to the conditions one might enjoy working in, in their thirties or forties.
- It gives you time to pursue your hobbies
By not being ambitious enough or goal oriented, you may be targeted as an imbecile by Corporate buffs but how many of them can boast of having the luxury of passionately enjoying a leisurel pursuit such as painting, journaling or a game of tennis?
Maybe, if they set aside a bit of weekend time yes, but those are very few and far between.
Time, effort and energy may assure them a place on top of the ladder but leaves them with very little time to enjoy the medals of their hard work. As they say, ‘Even if you win the rat race, you are still a rat…’
- Big and smart decisions can be made when you are ready.
Choice of career, choice of life partner and choice of the kind of person you want to be twenty years from now are much likelier to work out in your favour when you have the solid experience to back it Up with. Besides taking responsibility for your own actions, seems effortless and gratifying when you are ready.
- It builds character.
When you pull a late one, it makes you look beyond the superficial, it makes you empathetic to those who are still struggling and it lures you to question life in a depth that you may have missed out on doing, had you caught the earlier tide.
- You only get more confident as you grow older.
Lucille Ball once said, “Love yourself and everything else falls into line”
As you feel more comfortable in your own skin and don’t care of what the world thinks of you, you find that self confidence to actually believe in yourself and even motivate others to do the same.
- You become your own best friend
You don’t need any one else’s validation or approval and sometimes you don’t even need company.
Booking a table for one at that place you feel like experimenting at, having a coffee and befriending strangers, catching that flick you wanted to see whether someone is free to watch it with you or not; It all comes easier when there is an underlying value of having lead a distinctive life from everyone else.
- Late bloomers will always choose the path they have forgotten.
There is no time for bullshit. With only that much of life span left, no late latif in his or her right mind will waste time on doing things they don’t like, for example attending boring events or indulging in draining conversations and pursuing interests that don’t appeal to them.
They hopefully won’t even throw it away on emotions that are obsolete.
The Late Clan will usually bring their A game to the table, for they know and understand the significance of losing time more than anyone else.
Read more such interesting late bloomer stories of successful people at:
- The dots connect…
The older you are, the more information you would have collected,because you have lived longer.
So everything makes kind of perfect sense; the lows, highs, good and bad, it all leads to the moment you are in ‘the now’ and the person you have come to be, cause of that.
More pieces of the puzzle seem to fit in, one by one.
And when you look back, you are actually grateful that you let some things just pass you by…..
- You have seen it all, done it all
Imagine how freeing it is, knowing that nothing will upset you that bad or throw you off course as much.
Hence, however it is you wish to bloom, it will simply flow….
For you already have learnt that the small stuff rarely matters and the big stuff you can handle with grace.
I look at late blooming, quite like a tree that the gardener has given up on.
It seems like it will never grow and then one unexpected day, it emerges into the most fruit bearing tree of all.
Fun fact: Did you know that seventy seven years after taking her first college course in 1930, Nola Ochs became the oldest college graduate in history, earning a degree at the age of 96?
read more about her and several others in the book:
Successul late bloomers: the story of late in life achievement by J.M.Orend ( goodreads author )